SUMMER Breezes - Aug & Sept. 1981

AUGUST 1981 MEMORIES

Sunday

August 16, 1981

Today Thomas & I went to see “Raiders of the Lost Ark” (it was wonderful). Then we went to Balboa’s Cafe (find pic of this) I find myself quite a bit attracted to him. But for quite a few serious reasons I have to settle my feelings down. For one, he has strange religious beliefs. #2, he has mother problems. She suffocates him. He has to tell her his every little move. I met her afterwards today, & she’s not very warm. I found myself doing all of the talking, 2 major problems, right? Then why do I feel such a strong attraction to him? Don’t ask me.

I know I’m rather down right now, as far as my love life goes. It’s been 1 month & ½ since I’ve been kissed. And that was Cam. Before him was Carl. (I’m sure that was it). I’ll take that back I’ve kissed Mark Hall after Carl & Mark Summers after Hall. (But neither are too important). I just need one good love.

OH WELL!

I sure had a good time today though.

1) Carl

2) Thomas (I guess)

3) Cam

No one too much. School starts soon. I register tomorrow.

Monday, August 17, 1981

Today I registered for college. I’m taking:

1) Choir

2) Madrigals

3) Aerobic Dance

4) Creative Writing

Tonite I went over to Cam’s. I tried on a dress (old) of his mother’s. It fit pretty well.

We then just sat in his room & visited. Well, one thing led to another & we kissed. A lot. I was quite glad. I know now that for sure he still cares a lot for me. I needed to know that.

I’m happy right now!

1) Carl

2) Cam

3) Thomas

Saturday, August 22, 1981

Tonite Thomas & I went & saw “Comin at Ya” in 3-D. It was fair. The 3-D was better “Creative From the Black Lagoon.”

Afterwards, we went to Wendy’s. A man from Scotland began to talk with us. His name was Peter. He was funny. He’s a big traveler & has been everywhere. He said St. Paul, Minnesota is his favorite place in America. When we left, he came out & looked at my car & then gave me his cigar holder with Scottish plaid emblem. (2021 - think I had that cigar band for years before throwing it away)

We had a terrific time.

Cam got us (he, me, Sherri & Thomas) 5th row seats to Barry Manilow concert.

September 1981 Memories

September 1, 1981 Tuesday

I have a lot to write. The key word today is THOMAS Seay III!! I’m becoming fonder of him each day. Last Sat. nite, we saw American Werewolf in London. There we went with Cam & Kathleen to The filling Station. (Thomas & I shared a Tune up. YUMMY! All nite we were becoming quite close (I had my arm thru his in the movie). (2021 comment - this was my signature move… to go see something scary so I could put my arm thru his - LOL)

On the way home, Thomas laid back in my lap & I rubbed his head & temples. I couldn’t resist him.

Cam dropped us at R. Square Mall to pick up my car & I took Thomas home. When we got out of the car, Thomas grabbed my hand & bluntly asked how many boyfriends I’ve had. When I said I didn’t know,, he said “That many, huh?” We laughed.

We walked to the side of the house, & I put my arm over his shoulder & smiled; he leaned down & kissed me. WOW! I haven’t had a tingle (spine-chilling) like that since me & Carl March 6, 1981 in San Marcos. I couldn’t think of anything except Thomas all day Sunday.

Then Monday came. There was such a stiff uncomfortableness around us. I could hardly even talk to him. It was terrible.

Today started out bad, but I sat by him in Recital & we giggled & had a regular good ole time.

I’m GLAD!

I’ve decided I’m not gonna worry about his religion, things will work out. His mom (I found out) really likes me. So that’ll help.

Gotta go!!

1) THOMAS!

No one else at all!!

September 8, 1981 Tuesday

It’s 2:00 a.m. I just talked to Mom for 2 hours. God, how I love her. I have to get up in 4 hours, but it’s all worth it. We talked about her marriage & Alex.

Earlier, I wrote a paper about Alex. It’s the beginning of Chapter One in a novel. Entitled “The Funeral.”

Gotta go to bed!

I love the World!!

Tomorrow at 6:00 a.m. I may feel different!

September 21, 1981 Monday

Tonite I talked two hours & ½ to a guy, Andy Jones, that I’ve never met before. How? Kathleen’s boyfriend, Shane, wants us to meet. He called me once before, but we only talked for about 5 minutes. But tonite we couldn’t stop talking. We have a whole lot in common. Tomorrow we’re meeting at the Information Desk at 12:00 noon - Richland. I’m sorta scared.

Gotta go!!!

I’m not interested in Thomas at all. TOO IMMATURE!

Mike & Vera got married the 11th of September.

Bobby Gaston was there.

We went to Reunion Tower afterwards.

(2021 comment - i remember a group of us getting out of the car at Reunion/Dallas, and guess who we saw? Mike and Vera!! LOL - I remember her seeing us say “What are ya’ll doing here?” ha - It was their wedding nite and there we were!)

September 24, 1981 Thurs.

BARRY MANILOW

Tonite was one of the most entertaining experiences of my life. I went with Cam, Sherri & Thomas to Spaghetti Warehouse (had some spaghetti & Rose’).

After that, we went to the most enjoyable place of all. To Reunion Arena to see Barry Manilow live in concert. He was good last year, but his performance was superbly excellent this year. A lot has to do with the fact we had fourth row seats. We were so close, I could see the blue in his eyes! That’s close! Sherri got some good pictures. First half I sat by Thomas & second half I sat by Cam. I found myself attracted to Thomas again. I have to use will power to stay away except as friends. It’s hard, but I can do it.

It’s 12:57 a.m.

Gotta get up at 6:00 a.m.

Dee Ann’s coming home tomorrow.

September 29, 1981 Tuesday

You won’t believe who I went out with tonite? Kevin Anderson. (2021-OH NO!) Kevin apologized for any wrongdoings in our relationship. He took me to El Chico, Judge Roy Bean’s for a margarita, & then he showed me his apartment. (2021 I do NOT remember this)

He was very sincere & open. I told him how I felt about him a year ago. We were both quite frank. I’m so glad we talked. #MeToo

When he walked me to the door, he asked if he could hug me. I said sure. It was a very warm & genuine hug.

I feel much better.

1) Thomas

2) Doug (neither too terribly)

3) Kevin (not really)

4) Carl